The colonizer paradigm promises entitlement to: not die, not feel grief & not experience any discomfort.
Don't fall for this deluded trap & think that we too are entitled to not experience those things. It is not in our lineage to fear life & death or pain & discomfort as the brilliant @nikahelaku pointed in a recent post. God would never make such ridiculous entitled promises to human beings. Only the ego makes up stories like that.
Our ancestral lineages promise alchemy, transmutation, ascension & transcendence. We do not hide from or deny darkness, we turn it into light.
It's time to unbox our minds & hearts. We can start by admitting we were tricked by the colonizers & unplugging from group think.
Nobody has to agree with you for you to be right. You are sovereign & you are free.